Finding True Ease on Relaxing LGBT+ Holidays

Taking a break should feel like you’re finally exhaling. But for many LGBT+ travellers, that deep breath doesn’t always come easy. At Wide Awake Holidays, we believe gay friendly isn’t always friendly enough. You deserve more than tolerance — you deserve full freedom to relax, be yourself, and make memories that don’t come with second-guessing.

Let’s explore how to make your next Relaxing LGBT+ Holiday truly peaceful, safe, and unforgettable — whether it’s your first or your fiftieth.

What Makes a Holiday Relaxing for LGBT+ Travellers?

Everyone has a slightly different idea of what a relaxing break looks like. But for those of us in the LGBT+ community, relaxation isn’t just about spa days or sun-loungers. It’s about not having to shrink yourself.

On a truly relaxing LGBT+ holiday, you should:

• Travel without wondering if you're safe
• Be affectionate in public without glances or whispers
• Stay in places that welcome, not just tolerate, you
• Enjoy experiences designed with your comfort in mind
• Feel seen, valued, and relaxed — not “othered”

Not all destinations or hotels deliver that. But we know the ones that do.

How to Choose Relaxing LGBT+ Holidays That Actually Feel Safe

The first step is choosing where you go. Some destinations are better than others when it comes to inclusive attitudes, laws, and experiences.

Here’s what to look for:

• LGBT+ rights protected by law
• Positive public attitudes toward same-sex couples and queer identities
• Resorts and tours specifically welcoming to LGBT+ travellers
• A local scene that’s alive, proud, and visible — even if it's not the focus of your trip

Let’s take a closer look at a few destinations that tick these boxes — and go beyond.

Spain: A Classic Spot for Relaxing LGBT+ Holidays

Spain has long been a favourite. And with good reason. From the sun-drenched coasts of  Sitges to the laid-back islands like  Gran Canaria and  Ibiza, it blends vibrancy, visibility, and acceptance.

How Gay Friendly is Spain?

• Homosexuality legal since: 1979
• Same-sex marriage recognised: 2005
• Discrimination laws: Comprehensive protections under national law
• Employment protections: Yes, including anti-discrimination clauses
• Equal age of consent: Yes
• Public opinion: Over 85% of Spaniards support LGBT rights
• Spain is more than tolerant — it’s genuinely warm.

There’s even a growing number of exclusively gay hotels in areas like Maspalomas, including male-only and clothing-optional resorts.

Looking to unwind in the Canary Islands? We may have a current offer on one of our favourite adult-only beach resorts.

Greece: Myth, Beauty, and LGBT+ Ease

Whether it’s Athens,  Mykonos, or lesser-known islands like Skiathos or Naxos, Greece is an emerging gem for queer travellers seeking history, beauty, and space to breathe.

How Gay Friendly is Greece?

• Homosexuality legal since: 1951
• Same-sex marriage recognised: Not yet, but civil unions legal since 2015
• Discrimination laws: Laws exist but enforcement varies
• Employment protections: Yes, under EU regulations
• Equal age of consent: Yes
• Public opinion: Improving — especially in urban and tourist areas

Mykonos is famously welcoming, but even lesser-known islands are catching up. There are gay-exclusive guesthouses and boutique stays, often family-run and full of charm.

Heading to the Greek Isles? Ask us about available hotel or flight inclusives to Mykonos this season.

Portugal: A Quiet Star for Relaxing LGBT+ Holidays

Portugal doesn’t shout. It whispers luxury, culture, and comfort. And it’s one of the most progressive countries in Europe when it comes to LGBT+ rights.

How Gay Friendly is Portugal?

• Homosexuality legal since: 1982
• Same-sex marriage recognised: 2010
• Discrimination laws: Strong and well enforced
• Employment protections: Yes
• Equal age of consent: Yes

Public opinion: High acceptance — especially in Lisbon and Porto

Lisbon has one of the most vibrant queer nightlife scenes in Europe, while the Algarve offers quiet, sunny escapes.

Looking for a romantic stay in Porto? Let us know — we often have exclusive access to boutique properties.

Thailand

A long-time favourite for gay travellers, Thailand offers something for everyone — vibrant cities, peaceful beaches, wellness retreats, and more.

How Gay Friendly is Thailand?

• Homosexuality legal since: 1956
• Same-sex marriage recognised: Not yet — legal recognition expected soon
• Discrimination laws: Legal protections exist but vary in enforcement
• Employment protections: Progressing
• Equal age of consent: Yes
• Public opinion: Generally positive, especially in tourist zones

Chiang Mai and Bangkok offer culture and nightlife, while Phuket and Koh Samui offer that classic “feet up” feel.

We often have package deals to Thailand, combining hotels, transfers, and wellness add-ons.

Canada

Canada continues to be a leader when it comes to LGBT+ rights. It’s vast, varied, and full of possibilities — from cosmopolitan cities to natural wonders.

How Gay Friendly is Canada?

• Homosexuality legal since: 1969
• Same-sex marriage recognised: 2005
• Discrimination laws: National protections in place
• Employment protections: Yes
• Equal age of consent: Yes
• Public opinion: Strongly supportive in most areas

Toronto and Montreal are home to thriving queer communities. Vancouver offers laid-back city life with incredible scenery. And for rural retreats, Canada is rich in options.

Interested in exploring Quebec or Ontario? Let us know — we may have tailored trip options available.

Sweden

For LGBT+ travellers who want style, safety, and calm, Sweden is a rising star. Its progressive mindset makes it one of the most inclusive countries in the world.

How Gay Friendly is Sweden?

• Homosexuality legal since: 1944
• Same-sex marriage recognised: 2009
• Discrimination laws: Very strong, including for trans people
• Employment protections: Comprehensive
• Equal age of consent: Yes
• Public opinion: Overwhelmingly supportive

Stockholm and Gothenburg are known for design, culture, and open-mindedness. The countryside and lakes offer a peaceful escape, often overlooked by tourists.

Ask us about luxury breaks in Lapland or spa retreats in the south.

What Protections Do You Get When Booking With Jamie Wake Travel?

When you book through Wide Awake Holidays, you're not just getting expert advice — you’re protected every step of the way.

Here’s what’s included in every booking:

• ATOL protection for flight-inclusive packages
• Membership with Protected Trust Services for financial security
• Supplier Failure Insurance, in case any provider ceases trading
• Scheduled Airline Failure Insurance, to protect your flights
• Tailor-made service with real people who understand your needs

Whether you’re in the UK, the US, or further afield — you can book with confidence through Jamie Wake Travel.

How to Personalise Your Relaxing LGBT+ Holiday

Relaxation looks different for everyone. That’s why tailor-made travel is key. At Wide Awake Holidays, we listen to what you need — not just what’s on trend.

Some ideas we often plan:

• Spa breaks in the mountains or countryside
• Wellness retreats with LGBT+ instructors and clients
• Food and wine tours with queer hosts
• Quiet city escapes with cultural depth
• Cruises with LGBT+ groups or exclusively gay sailings

Need to avoid big crowds or want an adults-only resort? We’ll find the perfect match. Prefer a group vibe but not a party scene? We’ve got options for that too.

Jamie Says:

"The difference between gay-friendly and gay-welcoming is how relaxed you feel when you arrive. Our job is to make sure you can drop your shoulders from the moment you land. That’s what makes a real holiday."

Jamie Wake, Managing Director

Travelling Solo? You Still Deserve a Relaxing LGBT+ Holiday

Solo travel can be incredibly rewarding, but it can also come with its own nerves — especially if you’re queer.

What helps?

• Booking into gay group trips or LGBT+ cruises
• Choosing a resort with inclusive activities
• Working with a travel planner who understands your comfort zones
• Getting advice on solo-friendly gay destinations

We regularly help solo travellers build holidays that feel safe, connected, and full of freedom.

Small Things That Make a Big Difference on Relaxing LGBT+ Holidays

The little things can shape your whole trip. So don’t overlook the details that can ease stress from the start.

Some tips:

• Book airport transfers in advance so you’re not scrambling on arrival
• Choose direct flights where possible to reduce travel stress
• Let your agent know about any name discrepancies, especially for trans or non-binary travellers
• Bring a copy of your booking confirmations for peace of mind
• Ask about local etiquette so you’re never caught off guard

These simple prep steps go a long way when your aim is true ease.

Travelling from Outside the UK?

Even though we’re a UK-based company, we regularly create holidays for clients from the US, Canada, Ireland, and more.

What you’ll still get:

• Full travel planning and booking support
• Access to international tour providers
• Real people to talk to, by email or over the phone

You don’t have to be in the UK to use Wide Awake Holidays — you just have to want a holiday that feels like you.

Hotel Choices That Change Everything

Sometimes, the right hotel is all it takes to flip the switch from “tense” to “tranquil.”

Look for:

• Adults-only or gay-owned properties
• Hotels with staff trained in inclusivity
• Properties with a visible LGBT+ client base
• Resorts that offer space — not crowds
• Locations near queer-friendly towns or events

We maintain a database of handpicked hotels, each vetted for quality, comfort, and queer-friendliness.

Ask us if we’ve got an active offer on your dream hotel — you might be surprised.

Couples, Families, or Friends: Every LGBT+ Traveller Deserves to Relax

Not every gay holiday is about pool parties or Pride events. You might be travelling as:

• A couple celebrating an anniversary
• A solo traveller needing space to recharge
• A group of friends wanting a change of scene
• A queer family with kids seeking low-key fun

No matter your setup, your needs deserve full attention.

We design every trip around you. Your pace. Your vibe. Your joy.

What to Tell Your Travel Consultant

To help us tailor your perfect break, let us know:

• What your main goals are — rest, connection, culture?
• Any destinations you’ve always dreamed of?
• Are there activities you want included — spa, sport, food?
• What kind of accommodation feels most comfortable?
• Any sensitivities — health, mobility, pronouns, name preferences?

The more we know, the better your experience.

We handle everything with respect, discretion, and care. Always.

Why Book Your Relaxing LGBT+ Holiday Through Wide Awake Holidays?

Because we get it.

We know what it’s like to worry about acceptance — even on a beach. To wonder if a smile is just a smile. To want ease without explanation.

When you book with us, you get:

• A gay-owned, gay-run UK business
• People who truly understand LGBT+ travel
• Bespoke support and guidance
• Full ATOL protection
• No upselling. No assumptions. Just care.

And yes — we work with travellers around the world, not just in the UK.

We’ve helped clients from the US, Europe, and beyond feel right at home.

Your Holiday, Your Way — With None of the Guesswork

Relaxing LGBT+ Holidays aren’t just about what you do. They’re about how you feel while doing it.

Seen. Safe. Celebrated.

That’s what we build for every client. That’s what we want for you.

Whether it’s your first holiday like this or your tenth, let’s make this one truly relaxing.

Ready to Book Your Relaxing LGBT+ Holiday?

Let us help you feel the difference between “accepted” and “embraced.”

Call us on 01495 400947 to speak directly with one of our travel advisors.

Or if you prefer, use our holiday enquiry form — and we’ll start designing your perfect escape.

Wide Awake Holidays. Because you deserve more than just friendly.

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