Cruising has always carried a certain magic. There's something exciting about waking up in a new country each day while enjoying the comfort of a luxury ship. For LGBT+ travellers, especially those booking their first gay cruise, that magic can feel even more powerful. You're not just sailing the sea—you're stepping into a floating celebration of community, pride, and connection.
At Wide Awake Holidays, we understand that sometimes 'gay-friendly' is not friendly enough. That's why we help you find experiences that embrace you exactly as you are. Whether you're a seasoned gay holidaymaker or new to the scene, this guide will help you navigate what to expect from gay cruises—and how to make the most of every moment onboard.
What Are Gay Cruises?
A gay cruise is a chartered cruise holiday designed specifically for the LGBT+ community. These voyages are more than just holidays; they are moving festivals packed with events, entertainment, themed parties, and a welcoming atmosphere for all.
Expect drag shows, poolside DJs, and optional clothing events. But also expect quiet sunsets, romantic dinners, and group excursions. It's a space where you don’t have to explain yourself, hide who you are, or question if you'll be accepted.
Why Choose a Gay Cruise?
A gay cruise offers safety, fun, and community. Everyone on board shares a sense of openness and celebration. This creates a unique environment where you can relax without second-guessing how you might be perceived.
There are a few reasons gay cruises stand out:
- You're surrounded by like-minded travellers
- The entertainment is catered to queer culture
- There’s an unspoken understanding onboard
- You can truly be yourself without compromise
The atmosphere is inclusive and energising. You don't just go on a gay cruise to travel—you go to connect.
Who Goes on Gay Cruises?
Everyone. Literally. You’ll find solo travellers, couples, throuples, older holidaymakers, partygoers, and people from all walks of life.
Some ships cater more to men, while others are mixed or even lesbian-focused. There are cruises for circuit-party fans, and there are quieter sailings for those who prefer relaxation over raves.
It helps to know what you're looking for. Are you hoping for romance? Looking to dance? Want a cultural deep dive? There’s a cruise for every mood and moment.
What Happens Onboard?
Here’s what a typical day might look like on a gay cruise:
- Morning yoga or breakfast on deck
- Midday pool parties or onshore excursions
- Afternoon entertainment—from comedy to cabaret
- Dinner in one of several restaurants
- Themed parties or shows after dark
It’s your holiday, your pace.
Cruises often have dress-up nights or themes. Think White Party, Leather Night, or Rainbow Pride. Some guests go all out, others dip a toe in. Everything is optional.
Do I Need to Dress Up?
No, but it can be fun. Themed events are a staple of most gay cruises. From speedos to sequins, how much you take part is entirely up to you. Some enjoy creating show-stopping looks, others prefer to watch.
There is no judgement.
Make sure to pack outfits if you plan to join in. But bring comfortable clothes too. Days can be long, and you’ll want to feel relaxed.
What If I’m Travelling Solo?
Gay cruises are ideal for solo travellers. There are usually meetups, mixers, and group excursions designed for guests who aren’t travelling as a couple. It’s easy to connect with others.
You can book a shared cabin or go private. And while some guests come looking for love, most are simply there to enjoy.
Being solo never means being alone.
Destinations to Consider
Gay cruises sail all over the world. Some of the most popular routes include:
- The Mediterranean
- The Caribbean
- South America
- Northern Europe
- Australia and New Zealand
Each destination offers something unique. Let’s take a closer look at a few top picks.
Spain (Barcelona and Ibiza)
A favourite stop for many gay cruises is Spain, particularly Barcelona and Ibiza. Barcelona is stylish, diverse, and full of culture. Ibiza is all about the nightlife and beaches.
How Gay Friendly is Spain?
- Homosexuality has been legal since 1979
- Same-sex marriage was legalised in 2005
- Discrimination based on sexuality is illegal
- Employment protections are in place
- Equal age of consent
- Public opinion is broadly supportive and progressive
Greece (Mykonos)
Mykonos is a glittering gem in the Aegean Sea. Known for its whitewashed beauty and open-minded nightlife, it’s a highlight on many itineraries.
How Gay Friendly is Greece?
- Homosexuality decriminalised in 1951
- Same-sex civil unions since 2015
- Anti-discrimination laws in place
- Employment protections are partial but improving
- Equal age of consent
- Public opinion is growing in acceptance, especially in tourist areas
Italy (Rome and Naples)
Italian ports offer rich history and style. While social views vary, tourist hotspots are generally welcoming.
How Gay Friendly is Italy?
- Homosexuality legal since 1890
- Civil unions recognised since 2016
- Discrimination is illegal, but enforcement varies
- Some employment protections exist
- Equal age of consent
- Public opinion is divided but changing
Caribbean Islands
Tropical cruises often visit multiple Caribbean islands. It’s a beautiful region, but laws and attitudes vary greatly. Be cautious and research each island.
We carefully select cruises with safer ports of call.
How Gay Friendly is the Caribbean?
- Varies by island; some countries still criminalise homosexuality
- Same-sex marriage mostly not recognised
- Anti-discrimination laws rare
- Employment protections generally not in place
- Equal age of consent inconsistent
- Public opinion ranges from tolerant to hostile
Know before you go. We can advise you during the booking process.
Jamie Says: "Gay cruises are more than just a holiday—they’re a celebration of who we are. At Wide Awake Holidays, we help you find the journey that fits you perfectly, whether it’s a party on the waves or something more relaxed."
What to Know Before You Go
Before booking your first gay cruise, keep these points in mind:
- Know the vibe of the cruise (party vs. chill)
- Book early—cabins sell out quickly
- Look at the itinerary
- Read the onboard schedule
- Pack for the themes and destinations
- Ask questions—we’re here to help
Cruises vary greatly. Some are all about parties and DJs. Others lean toward culture, cuisine, and local exploration. Find what fits your mood.
Travel Protections You Receive When Booking With Us
At Wide Awake Holidays, your booking is safe with us. We are proud members of Protected Trust Services (PTS) and hold an ATOL license.
What does that mean for you?
- Your money is protected in a secure trust account
- ATOL protection covers flight-based packages if a supplier fails
- All tailor-made holidays include Supplier Failure Insurance (SFI) and Scheduled Airline Failure Insurance (SAFI)
- You get personal support, from booking to return
Your holiday is not just fabulous. It’s protected.
Booking with us means peace of mind, every step of the way.
Health and Safety
It’s natural to wonder about health and safety on cruises. Today’s ships are modern, clean, and secure.
There are medical centres onboard. Staff are trained for emergencies. And safety briefings are standard. You’ll also have Wi-Fi, apps, and daily updates.
All you need to worry about is what to wear to dinner.
Can I Bring My Partner?
Absolutely. Same-sex couples are welcomed and celebrated on gay cruises. Whether you’re dating, married, or somewhere in between, there’s no awkwardness.
This is your space.
Is It All Just Parties?
No. While parties are a big draw, there are plenty of quieter spaces and activities. Think spas, cafes, lectures, movie nights, or private balconies.
You choose your tempo.
Tips for Your First Gay Cruise
- Go with an open mind
- Join onboard events to meet people
- Explore each destination
- Don’t feel pressure to attend everything
- Take time for yourself
- Be kind—everyone’s there to enjoy
There’s no right or wrong way to cruise. Just your way.
Ready to set sail on your first gay cruise? Whether you want sun-soaked islands or cultural coastlines, we’re here to help you plan a trip that fits you. With our personal service, travel protections, and insider knowledge, you can trust Wide Awake Holidays to craft something truly special.
Give us a call on 01495 400947 or use our holiday enquiry form to start planning your perfect voyage. Let your next adventure begin at sea.
