The Best LGBTQ+ Friendly Resorts in Southeast Asia

When you’re planning LGBT Holidays to Asia, choosing the right resort matters more than ever.

You want a place that welcomes you fully, connects you with local culture, and offers a safe, relaxing escape.

In this guide we’re showcasing the best LGBTQ+ friendly resorts in Southeast Asia — each one carefully selected for inclusive service, great location and resort-style comfort.

Whether you're after a beachside hideaway, jungle retreat or vibrant party resort, there’s something here for you.



We’ll break down how gay-friendly each destination is, and highlight excellent resorts to stay at.

So pack your bags, bring your partner or your friends, and let’s explore what makes these resorts perfect for your next getaway.

Thailand

Why Thailand works for LGBT Holidays to Asia

Thailand has built a strong reputation as one of the most welcoming countries in Southeast Asia for LGBT+ travellers. Its resort infrastructure is highly developed, the tourism board actively promotes inclusivity, and gay-friendly resorts are increasingly available. 

For those seeking resort-style indulgence, you’ll find style, service and an accepting atmosphere.

In short, Thailand ticks the boxes for a fantastic “LGBT Holidays to Asia” resort stay.

How Gay Friendly is Thailand?

Thailand is widely considered the benchmark in the region. According to Lonely Planet, the country is “the most welcoming and LGBTQ+ friendly” in Asia. 

That said, same-sex marriage only recently became legal so there are still legal gaps in some areas.

Still, in the resort & travel sector, many properties openly market to and welcome same-sex couples and LGBT+ groups.

You’ll find gay-friendly hotels listed on major booking sites. 

In short: very good. Choose resorts that explicitly state their LGBT+ welcome and you’re safe.

Top Resort Pick: Boutique Beach Resort in Phuket

One resort that stands out is the boutique property at Surin Beach, Phuket, which has gained strong praise for LGBT+ inclusivity. 

The property offers private balconies, serene pool access and a genuine sense of welcome.

It’s ideal for couples or friends seeking relaxed luxury in a resort setting.

(Of course, we offer custom packages for this and other resorts via Wide Awake Holidays.)

Additional Resort Options

• Gay-friendly resort in Koh Samui (ideal for beach + party)
• Resort near Bangkok for city + resort mix
• A northern Thailand resort (Chiang Mai) for resort + nature
  
  

Bali, Indonesia

Why Bali is a favourite for LGBT Holidays to Asia

Bali’s blend of spiritual energy, tropical beauty, and warm hospitality makes it one of the most captivating destinations in Southeast Asia. For years it’s been a magnet for LGBT travellers looking for that perfect mix of beaches, culture and wellness. From luxury villas in Seminyak to serene resorts in Ubud’s jungle hills, the island’s resort scene is designed for privacy, comfort, and genuine connection.

Although Indonesia as a whole has inconsistent attitudes towards LGBT rights, Bali stands out as its most open and internationally minded region. Tourism dominates the local economy, and hospitality staff are known for their professionalism and respect for all guests.

How Gay-Friendly is Bali?

Officially, same-sex marriage isn’t recognised, and public affection can draw attention outside of tourist zones. However, in resort areas like Seminyak, Canggu, and Ubud, inclusion is normalised. Most international-standard resorts operate under global hospitality codes that protect guest equality.

Seminyak’s “Double Six” area even hosts several gay-friendly bars and beach clubs, creating a vibrant but relaxed social scene. Resorts here often feature same-sex honeymoon packages and private spa treatments for couples.

Tip: Always book through a trusted LGBT travel specialist who knows which resorts maintain inclusive policies — not every property that markets itself as “friendly” truly is.

Top Resort Picks

• Alila Seminyak – a stylish beachfront property renowned for discretion, inclusive staff training and adults-only tranquillity.
• Fivelements Retreat, Ubud – eco-luxury resort offering spiritual wellness programmes in a safe, affirming environment for all identities.
• W Bali – Seminyak – iconic for its vibrant pool scene and openly diverse crowd; popular for group holidays and pride-season stays.

These resorts combine high standards of comfort with a clear commitment to inclusivity. They’re ideal for travellers who want freedom to relax completely — no second-guessing, no awkward moments.



The Philippines

Why the Philippines is emerging as a resort favourite

With over 7,000 islands, the Philippines offers extraordinary choice — from world-class diving in Palawan to nightlife in Boracay and white-sand calm in Siargao. Culturally, Filipinos are known for their warmth and open-mindedness, rooted in family and community values.

For LGBT travellers, the resort scene is catching up quickly. Younger generations are visible, vocal and welcoming. Many staff in the hospitality sector identify as part of the LGBT+ community themselves, creating a naturally inclusive atmosphere.

How Gay-Friendly is the Philippines?

The country doesn’t yet have national marriage equality, but discrimination based on sexual orientation is widely frowned upon socially, especially in tourist areas. In Manila, Boracay and Cebu, open acceptance is the norm. Public affection draws little notice, and the Pride movement is vibrant, with major parades and cultural events each year.

At the resort level, inclusivity is strong. International chains like Shangri-La and local boutique hotels explicitly market same-sex packages. In Boracay, the Shangri-La Boracay Resort & Spa regularly appears on lists of the most LGBT-friendly resorts in Asia.

Top Resort Picks

• Shangri-La Boracay Resort & Spa – five-star sanctuary with exceptional service, secluded villas and couples’ spa suites. Known for treating all guests equally, it’s an ideal romantic escape.
• Nay Palad Hideaway, Siargao – offers barefoot luxury with a private-island feel; perfect for couples seeking quiet connection and ocean adventures.
• Discovery Shores, Boracay – an upbeat beachfront resort known for inclusive staff training and vibrant atmosphere.

Tip: Many local resorts happily tailor wedding-style celebrations for same-sex couples — they simply classify them as “commitment ceremonies” to align with local law.

Vietnam

Why Vietnam deserves a place on your LGBT Holidays to Asia list

Vietnam’s mix of ancient charm, dynamic cities, and tranquil coastlines makes it a standout for travellers seeking authenticity with comfort. Once overlooked, it’s now one of Southeast Asia’s most surprising destinations for inclusive resort stays.

From Hanoi’s old-town energy to the lantern-lit romance of Hoi An and the beaches of Da Nang, Vietnam balances culture and relaxation beautifully. Major resort brands have expanded across the country, bringing high standards and increasingly progressive service attitudes.

How Gay-Friendly is Vietnam?

Vietnam decriminalised same-sex relationships in 2015, and while marriage equality hasn’t been legislated yet, society has grown steadily more accepting. The younger generation, especially in cities and resort areas, embraces diversity. Hanoi and Ho Chi Minh City host Pride events annually, drawing growing local and international participation.

Tourism professionals are known for discretion and courtesy. Same-sex couples rarely face issues when booking shared rooms or enjoying amenities together. Most staff are trained to international hospitality norms that prioritise respect and guest comfort.

Top Resort Picks

• Four Seasons Resort The Nam Hai, Hoi An — set on a private stretch of beach, this resort blends Vietnamese design with ultra-luxury service. Its privacy and elegance make it ideal for couples who value peace and space.
• Amanoi, Ninh Thuan Province — a secluded coastal sanctuary offering world-class wellness facilities and a reputation for inclusivity. The staff’s sensitivity to diverse guests is often highlighted in reviews.
• Anantara Hoi An Resort — elegant riverside property ideal for exploring the ancient town, with a relaxed, cosmopolitan vibe.

Tip: Pair a Vietnam resort stay with a cultural extension to neighbouring Cambodia for temples, history, and warm hospitality — two contrasting experiences that work perfectly together.

Cambodia

Why Cambodia is Southeast Asia’s hidden gem for LGBT Holidays to Asia

Often overshadowed by Thailand and Vietnam, Cambodia quietly shines as a welcoming, soulful destination. Its charm lies in its people — kind, open, and eager to share their country’s heritage — and in its evolving hospitality sector, where inclusivity is increasingly built into resort culture.

Siem Reap, home to Angkor Wat, has become a hotspot for boutique luxury. Meanwhile, Phnom Penh’s riverside scene and the peaceful beaches of Kep and Sihanoukville offer options for both cultural exploration and seaside rest.

How Gay-Friendly is Cambodia?

While there are no national anti-discrimination laws yet, same-sex relationships are legal, and the social environment is largely tolerant. Locals are curious rather than judgemental, and the tourism sector leads the way in normalising LGBT+ acceptance.

Siem Reap even hosts small but lively Pride events each year, with local hotels and bars participating. Public affection still draws attention outside major cities, but private resort spaces remain completely safe and relaxed for same-sex guests.

Top Resort Picks

• FCC Angkor by Avani Resorts — a stylish urban resort that supports local LGBTQ+ staff and community projects. Perfect for combining luxury with meaningful travel.
• Tamu Hotel Kep — minimalist beachfront resort ideal for couples; its management explicitly promotes equal hospitality for all guests.
• Song Saa Private Island — Cambodia’s ultimate luxury escape, blending sustainability with personalised, inclusive service. Each villa offers private pools and ocean views — total serenity.

Tip: Cambodia is best enjoyed slowly. Pair temple days with pool evenings, and you’ll experience both history and rejuvenation in one trip.

Jamie Says:

"When we launched Wide Awake Holidays, our goal was simple — to help LGBT+ travellers see the world safely, authentically and joyfully. These resorts remind me that inclusion isn’t just a policy — it’s a feeling. Wherever you travel, you deserve to feel at home.”

Jamie Wake, Managing Director

Your Safety Net: How Wide Awake Holidays Protects Every Booking

Every trip you take should feel as safe as it is exciting — especially when travelling as part of the LGBT+ community. At Wide Awake Holidays, we believe confidence is the foundation of a great holiday. That’s why every booking is backed by robust financial protection, legal security, and complete privacy from start to finish.

Financial Confidence You Can Count On

When you book with us, your money and your plans are safeguarded under the UK’s most trusted travel schemes.

• ATOL Protection: Every flight-inclusive package is covered by an Air Travel Organiser’s Licence, guaranteeing that your investment is safe if an airline or supplier fails. You’ll never be left stranded abroad — we handle all arrangements immediately.
• ABTA Membership: For land-based bookings, our ABTA affiliation offers further protection and structured support in the rare event of travel disruptions. It’s your assurance that everything from your transfers to your resort stay is professionally managed and financially secure.
• Flexible Booking Policy: Travel should never feel restrictive. If global events, advisories, or personal circumstances shift, our flexible policy lets you move dates or even destinations with minimal fuss. We believe peace of mind shouldn’t cost extra.

Your Privacy, Protected Every Step of the Way

For LGBT+ travellers, safety is also about how personal information is handled. We take this seriously.

Your names, genders, and relationship details are shared only when required for reservations, and only with partners who follow strict equality and discretion standards.

Our network of hotels, guides, and local teams are thoroughly vetted — not just for quality, but for inclusion awareness and professional respect.

We also tailor documentation for each destination. In countries where overt LGBT symbols could draw attention, you’ll never see rainbow imagery or coded language on your travel materials. That’s part of how we quietly keep you safe while celebrating who you are.

Real People, Real Support

If a flight is delayed, a connection missed, or an emergency arises, our 24-hour UK support team is there to act fast. You’ll speak to real humans who understand your travel needs — not generic call centre scripts. Whether you’re dealing with a minor hiccup or a major change, we stay by your side until it’s sorted.

Our Promise

Protection isn’t an afterthought — it’s built into everything we do. Every supplier, driver, and resort partner we work with is chosen for professionalism, reliability, and respect. We go beyond compliance to make sure you’re protected emotionally, financially, and logistically.

Because your holidays should always be about joy — not worry.

Ready to Plan Your Next Journey?

Whether you’re dreaming of a secluded beach in Thailand, a private villa in Bali, or a cultural adventure across Vietnam and Cambodia, our team is here to make it happen safely and seamlessly.

We’ll match you with inclusive resorts, trusted local partners, and tailor-made itineraries designed for comfort and authenticity.

📞 Call us on +44 (0)333 090 3113

📧 Email: hello@wideawakeholidays.co.uk

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