When it comes to finding the perfect holiday, knowing you’ll be welcomed exactly as you are can make all the difference. That’s why we’ve put together this full guide to the top gay hotels in North America—places where you can relax, connect, and feel truly at home.
Whether you travel regularly on gay holidays or are considering your first one, these hotels combine comfort, community, and freedom in equal measure. And each one offers something a little different.
Let’s dive into the best places to stay across the continent.
1. Island House Key West, Florida (USA)
Island House is a legendary, clothing-optional gay resort in Key West. It’s adult-only, male-only, and widely considered one of the top gay hotels in North America. You’ll find a tropical courtyard, a poolside bar, and 24-hour access to their gym, sauna, and jacuzzi.
Staff are friendly, guests often return year after year, and the vibe is relaxed and flirtatious. You don’t need to be a party animal to enjoy it, but it helps.
Ask us about exclusive deals for Island House guests.
2. Hotel Chez Léonard, Montreal (Canada)
Located in the heart of Montreal’s Gay Village, this stylish boutique hotel caters exclusively to gay men. Each room is uniquely decorated with bold design choices and playful flair.
It’s intimate and warm, with communal breakfast areas that make it easy to meet other guests.
We can tailor your Montreal stay around events and Pride season.
3. The Hacienda at Warm Sands, Palm Springs (USA)
This luxury gay resort is one of the highest-rated in Palm Springs. The Hacienda focuses on personal service and privacy. Each suite opens onto a pool or garden, and the entire property feels peaceful and indulgent.
Couples love it. Solo travellers appreciate the quiet community vibe.
Contact us for package options with The Hacienda.
4. Pineapple Point Guesthouse, Fort Lauderdale (USA)
Pineapple Point is a welcoming and award-winning gay men’s resort. Set within lush gardens and just minutes from the beach, it offers spa services, pools, and daily happy hours.
Expect a good mix of ages, and a healthy balance between calm and connection.
Let us help you create a luxury itinerary around your stay.
5. Equator Resort, Key West (USA)
This resort is made for men who like their stay to feel social and easy-going. With multiple pools, a great location near Duval Street, and friendly staff, Equator is ideal for a relaxed and fun break.
They offer mixers and gatherings without any pressure.
We often pair Equator with curated excursions in the Keys.
6. The Grand Resort and Spa, Fort Lauderdale (USA)
Another standout in Florida, The Grand Resort blends spa-style pampering with a strong gay identity. Massages, facials, and fitness facilities are all part of the package.
It’s a great base for exploring Fort Lauderdale’s bars and beaches.
We offer custom spa and nightlife packages on request.
7. INNdulge, Palm Springs (USA)
INNdulge is all about Palm Springs sunshine and spontaneous poolside friendships. It’s laid-back and playful.
The mid-century modern design and well-kept grounds make it photogenic and comfortable.
Clothing-optional and adults-only, this one is for those ready to let loose a little.
Let us match you with the best room deals at INNdulge.
8. Easton Mountain Retreat, Greenwich (USA)
This retreat is set on 175 acres of forest and fields in upstate New York. It’s not your average resort. Easton Mountain offers retreats focused on healing, spirituality, and community for gay men.
Guests can join yoga classes, group discussions, or simply enjoy the tranquil surroundings.
We can help you schedule a retreat week that fits your goals.
9. Copper Cactus Inn, Phoenix (USA)
A smaller, independently run gay hotel in the desert city of Phoenix. It’s casual, clean, and community-driven.
With regular events and a pool area that encourages socialising, it’s a hidden gem.
Guests often praise how safe and welcome they feel.
Ask us about seasonal specials at Copper Cactus.
10. The Willows Inn, San Francisco (USA)
Right in the heart of the Castro, The Willows is a bed-and-breakfast that combines old-world charm with gay history. It feels more like staying at a friend’s home than a hotel.
There’s no pool or flashy amenities, but what you gain is a genuine local experience.
Let us include The Willows in your San Francisco holiday package.
How Gay Friendly is the USA?
- Legal status: Homosexuality has been legal nationwide since 2003
- Marriage equality: Recognised nationally since 2015
- Discrimination laws: Varies by state; some states still allow discrimination
- Employment protections: National laws protect federal workers, but coverage varies
- Equal age of consent: Varies by state, generally equal
- Public opinion: Generally accepting in urban areas, mixed in rural regions
In big cities and gay-friendly destinations like Palm Springs, Key West, and San Francisco, you’ll feel welcomed and safe.
How Gay Friendly is Canada?
- Legal status: Homosexuality decriminalised in 1969
- Marriage equality: Legal since 2005
- Discrimination laws: Nationwide protection against sexual orientation discrimination
- Employment protections: Strong protections at national and provincial levels
- Equal age of consent: Equal for everyone
- Public opinion: One of the most LGBT+ accepting countries globally
Montreal, Toronto, and Vancouver all boast strong and proud LGBT+ communities.
Why Choose Exclusively Gay Hotels?
You know you’re safe.
You won’t have to second-guess holding your partner’s hand or wonder if that friendly smile is actually friendly. You can just relax. And for many, that’s priceless.
Exclusively gay hotels offer a chance to meet others like you. Whether it’s your first gay holiday or your fiftieth, you’ll find places that understand what that means.
They aren’t just places to stay. They’re spaces where you can belong.
