Travel with Confidence: Navigating Non-Gay-Friendly Destinations

June 23, 2025


Travel with Confidence: Navigating Non-Gay-Friendly Destinations

Travelling as an LGBT+ person isn’t just about finding beautiful places—it’s about feeling safe, welcome, and free to be yourself. For many, holidays are a chance to relax and reconnect, but for others, the added layer of cultural or legal uncertainty means each trip requires extra thought. While the world has made progress in many regions, several destinations remain challenging for queer travellers. At Wide Awake Holidays, we believe in visibility, dignity, and options. So how can you enjoy the experience of travel while navigating non-gay-friendly destinations?


Whether you’re someone who’s been on dozens of gay holidays or you’re dipping your toe into LGBT+ travel for the first time, this guide is for you. It’s not just about where to avoid—it’s about how to move through the world on your own terms, even when the laws or social norms don’t fully support your identity.


Let’s explore how to travel confidently, even in the less affirming parts of the world, while keeping your comfort, safety, and sense of adventure intact.


Understanding Non-Gay-Friendly Destinations


Non-gay-friendly destinations can mean different things. Some countries criminalise same-sex relationships outright. Others may have no protective laws and allow discrimination in areas like employment, housing, or healthcare. In some places, public opinion alone can make it unsafe for LGBT+ travellers to be visibly themselves.


Travelling doesn’t mean erasing your identity—it means being informed and strategic. There are many ways to enjoy a place respectfully and safely while remaining true to who you are.


Here are some key factors to consider when researching a destination:


  • Legal Status: Is homosexuality legal? Are same-sex marriages or civil unions recognised?
  • Anti-discrimination Laws: Can you be denied service or arrested for simply being who you are?
  • Cultural Norms: How do locals view LGBT+ identities? What’s the social climate?
  • Safety Concerns: Are there reports of violence, harassment or police targeting?


Travel in non-gay-friendly destinations is possible—but it requires planning, situational awareness, and choosing the right travel partners.


Tips for LGBT+ Travellers in Non-Gay-Friendly Destinations


If you’re heading to a destination with poor LGBT+ rights, use these practical tips to stay safe and confident:


  • Research Before You Go: Know the local laws and customs inside out. We can help you with that.
  • Choose LGBT-Welcoming Accommodation: Even in restrictive countries, some hotels and hosts are quietly inclusive.
  • Be Discreet with PDA: While it may feel unfair, being mindful about physical affection can help avoid uncomfortable or dangerous situations.
  • Use Private Social Networks: If you’re looking to connect locally, apps like Grindr or HER can be helpful—but always use with caution.
  • Register with the Foreign Office: The UK Government’s Travel Aware campaign lets you sign up for country-specific safety updates.
  • Have a Local Ally: Booking tours or stays with people who understand LGBT+ travellers makes a big difference.


Many LGBT+ travellers still choose to visit places like the Maldives, despite legal restrictions, because of the breathtaking beauty, privacy of resort islands, and the quality of luxury experiences. With the right planning, it's possible to enjoy these destinations without compromising personal safety.


Why Book with Wide Awake Holidays?


We’re more than just a gay travel company. We’re travellers ourselves. That’s why we handpick every experience with care. As a UK-based, gay-owned company, we understand the nuances of queer travel and take them seriously.


All tailor-made holidays booked through Wide Awake Holidays include:


  • Supplier Failure Insurance
  • Scheduled Airline Failure Insurance
  • ATOL Protection
  • Protected Trust Services Membership
  • Personalised One-to-One Travel Planning


So even if the destination isn’t ideal in terms of legal rights or public perception, you’ll know that the team behind your trip is 100% in your corner.


Jamie Says:

"Whilst we prefer not to send our customers to some of these countries, we’ve helped clients travel to some of the world’s most challenging countries for LGBT+ rights—not because we support the regimes, but because we support our community’s right to see the world. The key is knowing how to travel smart and with confidence."


Jamie Wake, Founder of Wide Awake Holidays


United Arab Emirates: Beauty Meets Boundaries


With futuristic cities like Dubai and Abu Dhabi, the UAE is a glamorous, high-end destination. But beneath the surface lies a legal framework that criminalises same-sex relationships, with penalties ranging from fines to imprisonment.


Despite its tough laws, many LGBT+ travellers still visit the UAE for business, luxury holidays, and world-class resorts. Private villas, discreet service, and international hospitality brands create an environment where tourists can relax—if they know how to navigate it carefully.


Booking with an experienced agent who understands these nuances is crucial.


How Gay Friendly is the UAE?


  • Legality of Homosexuality: Same-sex sexual activity is illegal.
  • Same-Sex Marriage: Not recognised.
  • Anti-Discrimination Laws: None protecting sexual orientation or gender identity.
  • Employment Protections: No protections for LGBT+ workers.
  • Age of Consent: Equal in theory, but irrelevant due to criminalisation.
  • Public Opinion: Conservative. Public displays of affection, even among straight couples, are discouraged.


There are no exclusively gay properties in the UAE. However, international luxury hotels often train staff in inclusive service for a global clientele.


You can check for available offers on premium Dubai resorts by speaking to us directly—we’ll always discreetly match you with LGBT-welcoming properties.


Jamaica: Paradise with a Price


Jamaica conjures images of reggae rhythms, turquoise waters, and lush mountain ranges. But for LGBT+ travellers, this island paradise can come with significant risks. While tourism is a major part of the economy, attitudes towards same-sex relationships remain deeply conservative.


Violence and harassment against LGBT+ individuals have been widely reported, especially outside of resort areas. That said, there are inclusive resorts and safe zones—particularly in private, adult-only luxury properties—where staff are trained to deliver respectful and discreet service.


If you’re dreaming of a Caribbean escape, Jamaica may still be an option, but only with careful planning and expert guidance.


How Gay Friendly is Jamaica?


  • Legality of Homosexuality: Male same-sex activity remains criminalised under colonial-era laws; female same-sex activity is legal.
  • Same-Sex Marriage: Not recognised.
  • Anti-Discrimination Laws: None.
  • Employment Protections: No workplace protections for LGBT+ staff.
  • Age of Consent: Unequal—legal age varies depending on gender and orientation.
  • Public Opinion: Hostile in many areas. A deeply religious culture fuels widespread social stigma.


Jamaica does not have any exclusively gay hotels, but select all-inclusive resorts along the coast offer secluded luxury and have developed reputations for welcoming gay travellers. We work closely with a few of these discreetly LGBT-friendly properties to offer safe and serene holiday options.


Egypt: Ancient Wonders, Modern Challenges


Egypt’s awe-inspiring monuments, bustling bazaars, and Nile river cruises draw in millions of tourists every year. But the country’s record on LGBT+ rights is troubling. Same-sex relations are not explicitly outlawed, but vague public morality laws are frequently used to target LGBT+ individuals. Arrests, police entrapment, and social stigma are all real risks.


Despite this, LGBT+ tourists still travel to Egypt—particularly on group tours or within luxury hotel circuits that are used to international guests. Privacy, discretion, and well-organised itineraries are key.


How Gay Friendly is Egypt?


  • Legality of Homosexuality: Not specifically illegal, but people are often prosecuted under public morality laws.
  • Same-Sex Marriage: Not recognised.
  • Anti-Discrimination Laws: None protecting sexual orientation or gender identity.
  • Employment Protections: None.
  • Age of Consent: Equal, but law enforcement is often uneven.
  • Public Opinion: Generally hostile. Many LGBT+ Egyptians live closeted lives due to widespread stigma.


There are no openly gay hotels or bars in Egypt. But top-tier hotels in Cairo and along the Nile are used to serving a global clientele and tend to offer privacy and security.


Speak to us about luxury resort options in Egypt if you’d like to explore this extraordinary destination while keeping your safety and comfort a top priority.


Nigeria: Travel with Caution and Clarity


Nigeria is known for its vibrant culture, music scene, and natural beauty—but it’s also one of the most dangerous countries in the world for LGBT+ individuals. Same-sex activity is criminalised, and in some northern states under Sharia law, it can carry the death penalty. Even public support for LGBT+ rights is criminalised under the Same Sex Marriage Prohibition Act.


For this reason, travel to Nigeria as an openly LGBT+ individual requires extreme caution. We do not generally recommend it for leisure holidays unless absolutely necessary, or unless travelling on specific business, humanitarian, or cultural delegations.


That said, if Nigeria is a must-visit due to family, research, or professional obligations, Wide Awake Holidays can help construct a trip with the strictest safety and privacy considerations.


How Gay Friendly is Nigeria?


  • Legality of Homosexuality: Criminalised under federal law; punishable by up to 14 years imprisonment. In 12 northern states, the penalty under Sharia law is death.
  • Same-Sex Marriage: Explicitly banned.
  • Anti-Discrimination Laws: None.
  • Employment Protections: None.
  • Age of Consent: Irrelevant due to criminalisation.
  • Public Opinion: Extremely hostile. Surveys show strong societal rejection of LGBT+ identities.


There are no known gay-friendly or inclusive properties operating openly in Nigeria. Travel here should be assessed on a case-by-case basis. If a visit is essential, contact us for expert guidance in navigating the risks.


Maldives: Seclusion and Strategy


The Maldives is one of the most beautiful places on earth, with private overwater villas, turquoise lagoons, and world-class diving. It’s also a country where same-sex relations are criminalised under Islamic law.


And yet, many LGBT+ travellers still choose the Maldives. Why? Because most resorts are located on their own private islands, and the tourist industry is well-versed in international norms. Staff in luxury properties are typically trained to treat all guests with respect—regardless of who they love.


Discretion is key. Avoid public displays of affection outside of private areas, and stay within resort boundaries where possible.


How Gay Friendly is the Maldives?


  • Legality of Homosexuality: Illegal under Sharia law.
  • Same-Sex Marriage: Not recognised.
  • Anti-Discrimination Laws: None.
  • Employment Protections: None.
  • Age of Consent: Not clearly defined for same-sex relationships.
  • Public Opinion: Conservative. Maldivian society remains largely traditional and religious.


There are no exclusively gay resorts in the Maldives, but many 5-star resorts offer total privacy, world-class service, and an unspoken policy of non-interference. Wide Awake Holidays can help you choose a property where you can truly relax.


Check with us for current offers on Maldives packages designed with discretion and luxury in mind.


Ready to Plan Your Trip?


Even in non-gay-friendly destinations, your right to travel doesn’t disappear. It just takes thoughtful planning, insider knowledge, and a trusted partner. At Wide Awake Holidays, we don’t just tick boxes—we take care of the details that matter to LGBT+ travellers.


Whether you’re looking for a relaxing break in a luxurious resort, a cultural adventure in a complex destination, or somewhere discreetly welcoming, we’ve got you covered. And with financial protection built in—including ATOL cover, PTS membership, and failure insurance—you can book with full peace of mind.



Call us on 01495 400947 to start planning your next holiday, or use our holiday enquiry form on the website and let us build the perfect escape for you.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • What should I consider before travelling to non-gay-friendly destinations?

    Always research local laws, cultural norms, and the safety of LGBT+ travellers before booking.

  • Can I still have a good holiday in non-gay-friendly destinations?

    Yes, with the right planning and support, you can enjoy travel while staying safe and informed.

  • What protections do I get if I book through Wide Awake Holidays?

    All tailor-made holidays include ATOL cover, PTS protection, and failure insurance for peace of mind.

  • Are there any non-gay-friendly destinations that are still popular?

    Yes, places like the Maldives are frequently visited by LGBT+ travellers seeking luxury and privacy.

  • What makes a destination non-gay-friendly?

    Laws criminalising same-sex activity, lack of anti-discrimination policies, and negative public opinion.

  • Is it safe to show affection in non-gay-friendly destinations?

    It’s best to avoid public displays of affection in countries where this could lead to harassment or arrest.

  • How does Wide Awake Holidays choose hotels in non-gay-friendly destinations?

    We vet hotels for discretion, privacy, and experience in welcoming LGBT+ guests without bias.

  • Can I meet other LGBT+ travellers while visiting these destinations?

    Yes, but it should be done carefully—private online networks are safer than public meetups in these locations.

  • Are group holidays safer in non-gay-friendly destinations?

    Group tours can offer more safety and structure, especially with LGBT-aware guides and agencies.

  • Why should I use a specialist for non-gay-friendly destinations?

    Specialist travel companies like Wide Awake Holidays understand the risks and plan trips with your comfort in mind.

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