Planning your
first solo LGBT+ getaway? Whether you’re craving culture, sunshine, or community, gay single holidays are a powerful way to explore the world on your terms. They’re a chance to meet people, grow your confidence, and break free from everyday labels. But packing for a solo trip isn’t quite the same as packing for a group escape or couple’s retreat. You’re not just bringing clothes—you’re packing for possibility.
At Wide Awake Holidays, we understand that sometimes "gay-friendly" just isn’t friendly enough. We’re gay-owned, UK-based, and part of Protected Trust Services with full ATOL protection. Our team works with over 200 tour operators to build tailor-made trips that reflect your identity, safety, and travel goals. So before you zip up your suitcase, let’s unpack what really matters.
What Makes Gay Single Holidays Different?
Gay single holidays aren’t just about where you go—they’re about how you feel when you get there. Travelling solo means complete freedom, but it also means being prepared.
There’s no partner to split the packing list with. No group to fall back on if plans change. Everything is up to you—and that’s a good thing.
You get to design your trip your way. From flirtatious beach days to quiet wellness escapes, there’s space to focus entirely on what brings you joy.
But this also means your suitcase needs to reflect that independence.
So what exactly should you pack?
Gay Single Holidays Packing List Essentials
Let’s break it down.
1. Confidence Clothes
Pack at least one outfit that makes you feel amazing. Whether it’s a harness top for nightlife or a bold print for a day exploring the city, confidence is the best thing you can wear.
- One dress-up outfit (for clubs or fine dining)
- One fun, flirty look (perfect for beach bars or pool parties)
- Casual, comfy daytime pieces (that still show personality)
2. Solo Travel Tech
Being on your own means relying more on tech to stay safe and connected. Don’t forget:
- A portable power bank
- A lightweight international adapter
- Earphones with a built-in mic (great for voice notes or travel apps)
- Your phone with roaming or local SIM sorted
3. Essentials for Connection
Whether you want to meet people or just feel part of the community:
- Download apps like Grindr, HER, or Meetup (check safety settings!)
- Bring small tokens from home to share (flag pins, Pride bracelets)
- Have a list of queer-friendly venues in your destination
4. Day-to-Night Swaps
As a solo traveller, you don’t want to be weighed down. Choose pieces that work across day and night:
- Dark jeans or shorts that can dress up with a shirt
- A stylish pair of sandals or clean trainers
- One swimwear look that turns heads but doesn’t scream tourist
5. Health & Wellbeing Kit
Take care of yourself. You’ve only got one you.
- Travel-sized sunscreen and skincare
- Any medications in original packaging
- Condoms, lube, and PrEP (if applicable)
- A refillable water bottle
Where Are You Going?
Your destination shapes your suitcase. Here are three solo-friendly destinations worth considering, with practical insights to help you feel secure and celebrated.
Gay Single Holidays in Spain
Spain is a solo traveller’s paradise. Cities like
Sitges,
Barcelona, and
Madrid are easy to navigate, buzzing with LGBT+ life, and packed with experiences for every type of gay holiday.
How Gay Friendly is Spain?
- Homosexuality: Legal since 1979
- Same-Sex Marriage: Legal since 2005
- Discrimination Laws: Strong protections
- Employment Protections: Yes
- Equal Age of Consent: Yes
- Public Opinion: Very supportive
Looking for a hotel? Axel Hotel Madrid is adult-only and LGBT-owned. It’s lively, stylish, and ideal for solo travellers.
Gay Single Holidays in Thailand
T
hailand blends beach bliss with cultural charm. From
Bangkok’s clubs to
Phuket’s lazy shores, solo LGBT+ travellers feel welcomed.
How Gay Friendly is Thailand?
- Homosexuality: Legal since 1956
- Same-Sex Marriage: Not legally recognised (but under review)
- Discrimination Laws: Patchy, improving
- Employment Protections: Some exist
- Equal Age of Consent: Yes
- Public Opinion: Generally tolerant in tourist areas
Babylon Bangkok is a legendary gay guesthouse with a spa, pool, and bar scene—perfect for solo connection.
Gay Single Holidays in Portugal
Lisbon and Porto blend safety, style, and some of the most beautiful coastlines in Europe. Portugal is fast becoming a solo favourite.
How Gay Friendly is Portugal?
- Homosexuality: Legal since 1982
- Same-Sex Marriage: Legal since 2010
- Discrimination Laws: Broad protections
- Employment Protections: Yes
- Equal Age of Consent: Yes
- Public Opinion: Warm and accepting
The Late Birds Lisbon is an exclusively gay hotel with a relaxed social vibe and lush garden pool.
If you’re unsure how welcoming a destination might be, it's always worth checking trusted sources that outline your
rights as an LGBT+ traveller.
