7 Things to Consider When Booking LGBT Friendly Holidays

April 11, 2025


LGBT Friendly Holidays offer a sense of belonging many other travel options miss. But not all “friendly” destinations truly embrace the community. Whether you travel often or you’re considering your first LGBT holiday, there are key things to think about before you book. Let’s dive straight in.

1. What Does “LGBT Friendly” Really Mean?

It’s easy to see a rainbow flag and assume a destination is safe. But visibility doesn’t always equal inclusion. “LGBT friendly” should mean more than tolerance. It should feel welcoming, warm, and above all, respectful.

Ask yourself: can you hold hands in public without worry? Are local laws supportive of same-sex couples? Is the hotel staff trained to treat all guests equally? These are questions worth asking.

Look beyond marketing. Real LGBT Friendly Holidays offer freedom, not fear.

2. Check the Legal and Social Climate

Laws change, but they still matter. Some countries may criminalise same-sex relationships. Others may lack protection even if same-sex marriage is legal.

It’s not just about legality either. Social attitudes make a big difference. A friendly face at reception is one thing. A safe stroll in the evening is another.

Before booking:

  • Research local laws and customs.
  • Use community forums for honest experiences.
  • Check how recent travellers rated their stays.

Wide Awake Holidays always stays up-to-date on legal climates so you don’t have to.

3. Ask About LGBT Specific Services

Some destinations go beyond the basics. They celebrate who you are. Events, nightlife, excursions, and wellness experiences tailored to LGBT travellers can elevate your entire trip.

You don’t need a Pride parade to feel proud on holiday. But knowing there’s a local scene or tour guide who understands your world adds comfort.

Many resorts now offer:

  • Couples’ spa treatments without awkward assumptions.
  • Private beach dinners for any pairing.
  • LGBT-focused city tours.

You deserve more than acceptance. You deserve celebration.

4. Pick Your Accommodation Carefully

Not all hotels are created equal. A place that says “all are welcome” should mean it. But sadly, assumptions still exist. Booking a double bed shouldn’t come with side-eye at check-in.

When you travel with Wide Awake Holidays, we work directly with LGBT-friendly hotels and accommodations around the world — and right here in the UK too.

Want to keep it local? We offer a variety of gay-owned and gay-welcoming B&Bs and countryside stays across the UK. Whether you want a romantic break in Cornwall or a cosy escape in the Cotswolds, we’ll match you with the right place.

Looking for something last minute? We’ve got exclusive short break packages available right now. Just ask!

5. Don’t Assume All Destinations Are Equal

Some places are known for their LGBT-friendly culture. Others are growing in the right direction but may still have gaps.

Top picks for LGBT Friendly Holidays include:

  • Mykonos, Greece : Known for its inclusive party scene.
  • Sitges, Spain : A year-round gay favourite.
  • Cape Town, South Africa : Progressive laws and vibrant culture.
  • Brighton, UK : Still one of the best spots close to home.

We also help clients find hidden gems. Think welcoming towns in Italy, charming coastal villages in Portugal, or spa getaways in the Lake District. All tailored to your vibe.

We’ll only suggest places where we’d feel comfortable ourselves.

Jamie says : “LGBT Friendly Holidays should feel natural, not forced. At Wide Awake Holidays, we look at the full picture: safety, welcome, and a bit of sparkle. If I wouldn’t send my friends there, I won’t send you.”

6. Consider Your Type of Trip

Are you planning a romantic getaway? A group escape with your chosen family? Or perhaps a solo recharge in nature?

The type of holiday you want makes a difference in destination choice. For example:

  • Romantic retreats : Think overwater bungalows in the Maldives or wine tasting in France.
  • Group getaways : Look for villa stays or all-inclusive resorts with communal areas.
  • Solo travel : Choose destinations with good transport, local LGBT support, and vibrant communities.

Every traveller is different. That’s why we tailor every booking.

7. Work With Someone Who Understands You

Let’s be honest. Booking a holiday online might seem easy, but it can be risky if you don’t know what to look for.

That’s why a personal travel service makes a difference.

At Wide Awake Holidays, we:

  • Get to know you.
  • Recommend places we trust.
  • Offer protection as a member of Protected Trust Services.
  • Make sure your preferences are respected and reflected.

You’re not just a customer. You’re a person with specific needs, preferences, and dreams. And we’re here to help make those happen.

Ready to Book Your LGBT Friendly Holidays?

Whether you’re a seasoned globetrotter or planning your first break, we’re ready when you are. We’ll listen, suggest, and arrange the perfect trip — from luxury beach escapes to UK countryside stays.

Call us on  01495 400947  or use our  holiday enquiry form  to start planning.

Because sometimes “gay friendly” just isn’t friendly enough. We believe you deserve better.


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