Gay Resorts in the US: Where to Stay for the Best Experience
US Gay Resorts You’ll Love: Top Picks for an Unforgettable Stay
US Gay Resorts deliver the ultimate experience whether you travel often on a gay holiday or are planning your first trip. From Palm Springs to Fire Island, each destination offers something special. UK travellers—or visitors from the US, Europe or beyond—will find we tailor your holiday with care at Wide Awake Holidays, a gay-owned company, ATOL-licensed and a member of Protected Trust Services.
US Gay Resorts in Palm Springs: Desert Oasis
Palm Springs is legendary among US Gay Resorts fans. It has year-round sunshine, mid-century style, and a high concentration of exclusive gay resorts. Popular options include INNdulge, Santiago Resort, Vista Grande Resort, and Desert Paradise.

INNdulge
INNdulge is men-only, clothing-optional and social.

There’s a pool, twelve-person Jacuzzi, pizza nights and laid-back communal areas. It’s close to the Warm Sands district nightlife.
We can offer special rates at INNdulge for your Palm Springs stay.
Santiago Resort
Santiago is more intimate and upscale. Its setting feels luxurious yet relaxed. Many guests say it’s ideal for couples or solo travellers seeking peace without sacrificing style.
We currently have an exclusive offer at Santiago Resort—just drop us a note.


Vista Grande Resort

Vista Grande offers lush gardens, two pools, a 16-person spa, sauna and steam rooms. It hosts karaoke and trivia nights, often with drag entertainment. It sits in central Warm Sands.
Ask us about package pricing at Vista Grande.
How gay friendly is Palm Springs?
- Homosexuality has been legal in California since 1976
- Same-sex marriage recognised since 2013
- Sexual orientation discrimination banned in employment since 1992
- Equal age of consent
- Public opinion: very supportive, with a flourishing gay community
US Gay Resorts in Fort Lauderdale: Florida Heat & Community
Fort Lauderdale, especially Wilton Manors, is filled with gay guesthouses and resorts. Highlights include Pineapple Point Resort and The Grand Resort & Spa.
Pineapple Point Resort
This tropical-style, clothing-optional, male-only resort includes happy hour drinks, massage studios, sun decks and warm hospitality from hosts who treat staff as family.
We can arrange a discounted stay at Pineapple Point for your dates.


The Hacienda at Warm Sands
Though technically in Palm Springs, it’s often grouped with Fort Lauderdale-style resorts.
Hacienda is quiet, mountain-scenic, clothing-optional and perfect for relaxation.
Offer available upon request.
The Grand Resort & Spa
Elegant and adult only. Social but refined. Great spa facilities and more peaceful than some party resorts.
Contact us for current pricing and availability.

How gay friendly is Fort Lauderdale and Florida?
- Florida decriminalised homosexuality in 2003
- Same-sex marriage recognised federally in 2015
- Employment discrimination based on sexual orientation is banned by federal law (2020)
- Equal age of consent
- Social acceptance varies: Wilton Manors is very welcoming; other parts of Florida may be less progressive, but tourism areas are inclusive
US Gay Resorts in Key West and Provincetown: Coastal Comfort

Island House – Key West
Island House in Key West is clothing-optional, lively and inclusive. It’s near Duval Street but maintains a retreat feel. It draws a diverse international crowd.
Let us know if you’d like our package for Island House.
How gay friendly is Key West?

- Florida decriminalised homosexuality in 2003
- Same-sex marriage since 2015
- Employment protections exist at state and local level
- Equal age of consent
- Key West has a long-standing LGBTQ culture and is widely seen as safe and welcoming
The Brass Key Guesthouse & Carpe Diem – Provincetown
Provincetown, Massachusetts, is legendary for queer travel. The Brass Key Guesthouse offers luxury, a pool and social hours. Carpe Diem Guesthouse & Spa is quieter and wellness-focused.
We can quote you for Brass Key or Carpe Diem if you are interested.

How gay friendly is Provincetown?
- Massachusetts legalised same-sex marriage in 2004
- Homosexuality legal since 1972
- State employment protections since 1989
- Equal age of consent
- Public opinion: overwhelmingly positive, with Provincetown known as one of the most accepting towns in the US
US Gay Resorts on Fire Island: Iconic Gay Village Experience
Fire Island’s gay enclaves—Cherry Grove and Fire Island Pines—stand out as unique destinations with historic significance in queer culture.

Fire Island Pines
Curated community with seasonal events like Invasion, Ascension and Pavilion nights. Clothing optional beaches, boat access and a strong tradition of queer summer gatherings.
We can arrange ferry tickets and accommodation packages to The Pines area.
Cherry Grove
Often called America’s first gay & lesbian town.
Relaxed, scenic, with clothing-optional dunes. It offers authenticity and free-spirited days by the sea.
If you’d like a stay near Cherry Grove, we can suggest local guesthouses and offers.

How gay friendly is Fire Island?
- New York legalised same-sex marriage in 2011
- Homosexuality legal since the 1980s
- Employment protections exist statewide
- Equal age of consent
- Public opinion in Fire Island is highly inclusive; the area is iconic in queer history
US Gay Resorts Beyond the Usual: Hidden Gems & Ranch-Style

The Dunes Resort – Saugatuck, Michigan
One of the largest LGBTQ+ resorts in the US. It blends lakeside relaxation with a lively, inclusive crowd. A favourite for couples and groups alike.
We can quote for stays at The Dunes Resort.
How gay friendly is Michigan?

- Homosexuality legal since 2003
- Same-sex marriage recognised federally since 2015
- Employment protections through federal ruling; state laws vary
- Equal age of consent
- Public acceptance is mixed statewide; Saugatuck is notably welcoming
US Gay Resorts for Wellness, Mindfulness, and Connection
Not every gay resort experience needs to revolve around pool parties and nightlife. Some travellers seek peace, reflection, and connection with nature or themselves. Thankfully, several US Gay Resorts cater exactly to that need.
Easton Mountain – Greenwich, New York
This retreat centre in upstate New York was founded by gay men to foster community, spirituality, and healing. It offers structured retreats on everything from tantra to meditation to art and creativity. There’s a hot tub, hiking trails, shared vegetarian meals, and communal living. It’s less “resort” and more intentional community—but for many, it’s transformative.
If you’re searching for something deeper than a holiday, Easton Mountain is worth exploring. We can help plan a visit around one of their seasonal retreats or custom travel ideas.


Kalani Retreat – Big Island, Hawaii
Although not exclusively gay, Kalani is LGBTQ-welcoming and offers retreats, wellness classes, eco-lodges, and oceanfront yoga. It’s a place to disconnect from modern pressure and tune into the elements—think rainforest walks, lava hikes, and seaside sunrise meditations. For gay travellers who want a restorative escape with like-minded souls, Kalani can be a powerful choice.
Hawaii has long been seen as a honeymoon hotspot, but it’s also deeply spiritual and grounding. We can build a Hawaii retreat holiday that combines wellness with cultural immersion and relaxation.
How gay friendly is Hawaii?
- Homosexuality legal since 1973
- Same-sex marriage recognised since 2013
- Comprehensive anti-discrimination laws, including for housing, employment, and public services
- Equal age of consent
- Public opinion: broadly inclusive, especially in tourism-dependent areas like Big Island, Oahu, and Maui
These destinations show that US Gay Resorts aren’t one-size-fits-all. Whether you’re looking to reflect, heal, or grow, we can help you find a safe and supportive space to do just that.
US Gay Resorts with a Party Vibe: Where to Let Loose
If wellness retreats aren’t your thing, and what you’re really craving is music, dancing, and meeting new people—then party-focused US Gay Resorts are your scene.
The Flamingo Resort – St. Petersburg, Florida
This iconic LGBTQ+ resort is built around celebration. Think poolside DJs, weekend drag brunches, themed parties, and nightly shows. It’s more Miami Beach energy than quiet Fort Lauderdale. The Flamingo is popular with gay travellers in their 20s to 40s and often runs special events, such as bear weekends and pride pool parties.
If you're after a sun-soaked, high-energy escape with all the rainbow flags, this is your place. We’ve got flexible packages for The Flamingo including optional upgrades and Pride event access.


CCBC Resort – Cathedral City (near Palm Springs)
Clothing optional, adult only, and fully geared toward a younger party crowd, CCBC blends the boldness of a club with the comfort of a private resort. With a pool, play zones, cabanas, and themed weekends, this isn’t for everyone—but for some, it’s exactly what they want from a US gay holiday.
It’s minutes from Palm Springs, but has its own following and vibe. We can arrange a stay here with added transfers or excursions for the perfect mix of play and chill.
How gay friendly is St. Petersburg?
- Same protections as the rest of Florida legally, but the city itself has gone further: it scores highly on US LGBTQ equality rankings
- Local government openly supports Pride, drag shows, and LGBTQ community centres
- Strong nightlife and LGBTQ-owned business scene
From leather weekends to circuit festivals, US Gay Resorts that party hard are perfect for extroverts, groups, and anyone craving a vibrant atmosphere. Whether you’re dancing poolside at The Flamingo or soaking up the buzz in Cathedral City, we’ll help make it a trip to remember.
For up-to-date statistics and legal developments in each state, the Williams Institute at UCLA provides excellent research on LGBTQ+ rights and demographics.
What Protections You Get Booking US Gay Resorts via Jamie Wake Travel
Booking through Wide Awake Holidays via Jamie Wake Travel gives you:
- ATOL protection when flights are included
- Membership of Protected Trust Services safeguarding your payments
- Supplier Failure Insurance and Scheduled Airline Failure Insurance included in every tailor-made holiday
- Expert help if suppliers fail, with UK regulatory backing
- Personal service from gay-owned UK travel experts who care about your journey
- International booking options—for clients worldwide, not just the UK
Our approach isn’t just booking your stay. We protect your payments, your plans and your peace of mind.
Why US Gay Resorts May Be More Than Gay Friendly
Gay friendly is good—but sometimes it’s not friendly enough. At a gay resort, you are among likeminded travellers. You can relax, socialise and feel free without worry. You belong.
Our tailor-made packages give you that extra layer of comfort. You’ll get bespoke stays, insider advice, curated events and support at every step. Whether it's INNdulge in Palm Springs or Cherry Grove on Fire Island, we make sure your needs are met with care and ease.
Tips for Choosing the Right US Gay Resort
When you pick a gay resort in the US:
- Decide your vibe: party, wellness, social, couples, clothing-optional or quiet
- Check resort amenities: spa, pool, events, food, style
- Consider season: some places open only in summer
- Think about location: city nightlife vs secluded retreat
- Look into LGBTQ rights in the state or town
Here’s a quick comparison:
- Palm Springs: party social, desert oasis, strong local gay scene
- Fort Lauderdale: beaches, vibrant nightlife, Wilton Manors community
- Key West / Provincetown: historic LGBTQ towns by the sea
- Fire Island: iconic queer enclave with a strong cultural heritage
- Saugatuck: lake resort with inclusive, laid-back region
Packing Tips for a US Gay Resort
- Bring light clothing or swimwear—some areas are clothing-optional
- Travel adapters and sunscreen are essential
- Include IDs and proof of booking for ATOL and travel insurance
- Pack personal meds and a copy of your itinerary
- Consider joining local Pride events or themed parties
US Gay Resorts Are for Everyone: Not Just for Couples or Singles
A common misconception is that US Gay Resorts are only for couples or single men. The truth is, many resorts welcome groups of friends, solo travellers, and even older LGBTQ+ guests who just want to relax and feel part of a community.
Some resorts, like The Dunes in Michigan or Island House in Key West, foster easygoing, social atmospheres where no one feels out of place. You don’t need to arrive as part of a couple to feel included. Many resorts even organise activities that encourage guests to connect—whether it’s a communal breakfast, poolside drinks, or themed nights.
Travelling solo? Ask us about resorts that offer shared lounges or scheduled social hours. Part of a group? We’ll help you find resorts with larger rooms, private villas, or group rates. Older traveller looking for calm and comfort? We can suggest places where peace, accessibility, and slower pace are the norm.
US Gay Resorts are designed to help you feel at ease—whoever you are, and however you travel.
Final Thoughts on US Gay Resorts and Booking via Wide Awake Holidays

Whether you are experienced in gay travel or booking your first gay holiday, US Gay Resorts have something for you. From hip pool parties to tranquil spa breaks, there is a perfect fit.
Wide Awake Holidays offers a UK-based personal service, ATOL and Protected Trust Services. We welcome clients from the UK, the US, Europe and beyond. Tailor-made holidays include failure insurance—and most importantly—attention to detail.

Jamie Says:
“I believe the best gay resort isn’t just gay-friendly—it feels like home away from home. That’s what we aim for at Wide Awake Holidays.”
Your trip can be effortless, secure and unforgettable. Whether you choose Palm Springs, Fire Island, Provincetown or Michigan, we can create the perfect stay.

Call us on 01495 400947 or use our holiday enquiry form to plan your ideal US gay resort holiday today.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What makes US Gay Resorts different from regular resorts?
US Gay Resorts are designed specifically for LGBTQ+ guests. They often offer a more welcoming, inclusive environment where you can fully relax, be yourself, and connect with likeminded travellers.
Are US Gay Resorts only for gay men?
Not always. While some resorts are male-only, many welcome all LGBTQ+ guests, including lesbian, bi, trans, and non-binary travellers. We can help match you with the right vibe and policies.
Are US Gay Resorts suitable for solo travellers?
Yes. Many resorts are very social and include group activities, happy hours, and shared spaces to meet people. We’ll happily recommend resorts that are great for travelling alone.
Do US Gay Resorts offer clothing-optional areas?
Some do, especially in Palm Springs or Fort Lauderdale. Others are standard resorts with a more casual dress code. We’ll explain the options clearly before you book.
Can I stay at a US Gay Resort if I’m not from the UK?
Absolutely. While we’re a UK-based company, we work with clients worldwide, including the US and Europe. Anyone can book a holiday with Wide Awake Holidays.
Are there US Gay Resorts that focus on wellness or spirituality?
Yes. Some offer yoga retreats, mindfulness workshops, and healing experiences. Easton Mountain and Kalani Retreat are great examples, and we can tailor trips around them.
Are US Gay Resorts suitable for older LGBTQ+ travellers?
Definitely. Many resorts have a mixed-age crowd or cater specifically to mature guests. We’ll help you find the right resort based on your comfort and pace.
What should I pack for a US Gay Resort holiday?
Bring light, casual clothes, swimwear (especially if it’s clothing-optional), sun cream, and your essentials. We’ll send a custom packing list with your booking confirmation.
Are US Gay Resorts safe for LGBTQ+ travellers?
Yes, especially in places like Palm Springs, Key West, and Provincetown. We include a “How Gay Friendly Is…” section for each destination so you know what to expect.
How do I book a US Gay Resort through Wide Awake Holidays?
Just give us a call on 01495 400947 or use our holiday enquiry form. We offer a personal service, full financial protection, and tailor everything to your needs.
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