LGBT+ Friendly Accommodation in New York City: A Local’s Guide to Gay Holidays to New York

April 5, 2025


Looking for a holiday that welcomes you completely as you are? If you’re thinking about gay holidays to New York, you’re already on the right track. New York City is not just one of the world’s most iconic destinations; it’s also a bold, inclusive, and diverse place where the LGBT+ community doesn’t just visit – it thrives.

Whether it’s your first time booking an LGBT+ holiday or you’re a seasoned traveller, this guide is packed with personal insight, practical advice, and real recommendations to make sure your stay is as fabulous as the city itself.

Why Choose Gay Holidays to New York?

From the Stonewall Inn to the annual Pride March, New York has always been a beacon of queer liberation. But beyond the parades and history, there’s a living, breathing community across all five boroughs. You’ll find queer-owned businesses, inclusive nightlife, and boutique hotels that understand what safe, welcoming hospitality really means.

So why do so many choose gay holidays to New York? Because it feels like home, no matter where you come from.

Jamie says : “When we plan holidays for our clients, we want them to feel not just welcomed but seen. Gay-friendly is the bare minimum. We look for places that  celebrate  who you are. New York is full of those.” – Jamie Wake, Founder of Wide Awake Holidays

Where to Stay: Top LGBT+ Friendly Hotels in NYC

When searching for gay holidays to New York, you want more than just a rainbow sticker on a website. These hotels walk the walk and offer something special.

The Walker Hotel Greenwich Village – Ideal for Romantic Getaways

Set on a tree-lined street in one of New York’s most charming neighbourhoods, The Walker mixes vintage style with a strong local feel. It’s steps from the historic LGBT+ Bookshop, Bureau of General Services.

  • Stylish rooms with art deco flair
  • Minutes from Washington Square Park
  • Discreet, attentive service with a personal touch

Ask us about current offers for The Walker Hotel Greenwich Village.

The Standard, High Line – For the Party Crowd

This place is unapologetically bold. It rises above the Meatpacking District, where you can dance till late at queer hotspot Le Bain.

  • Floor-to-ceiling windows with skyline views
  • Home to The Top of The Standard, a glamourous bar
  • Walking distance to Chelsea’s gay bars and clubs

We sometimes have exclusive rates for The Standard. Ask us for this month’s deals.

Hotel Beacon – Great for Longer Stays

Located on the Upper West Side, this hotel offers spacious rooms with kitchenettes, perfect for travellers who want a home base.

  • Quiet, local vibe with easy subway access
  • Ideal for solo travellers and couples
  • Near Central Park and Museum of Natural History

Get in touch to see if there are any Beacon packages available.

The Ace Hotel Brooklyn – Cool, Creative, Queer

Ace Hotels are known for being culturally plugged-in, and this Brooklyn gem is no exception. It feels like a queer-friendly art gallery with rooms.

  • In-house gallery and regular DJ sets
  • Inclusive ethos, diverse staff
  • Just a short ride to Manhattan

Want to check for a Brooklyn deal at the Ace? Drop us a message.

Hidden Gems and Local Favourites

Want to avoid the tourist traps? Here are a few places that locals love:

  • Cubbyhole Bar  (West Village): A cosy lesbian-owned dive bar that’s packed with personality.
  • Bluestockings Cooperative  (Lower East Side): A queer-owned radical bookstore and cafe.
  • House of Yes  (Bushwick): Dance, drag, art, and freedom all in one electric space.

New York is more than just Manhattan. Make time to explore Brooklyn and Queens for an authentic slice of LGBT+ culture.

Travel Tips for Gay Holidays to New York

It’s one of the most open cities in the world, but it helps to know a few things before you go:

  • Pride is Massive : Book hotels well in advance if travelling in June.
  • Tipping is Essential : 15-20% is standard in bars and restaurants.
  • Stay Street Smart : Like any big city, use apps to navigate and be aware late at night.

Are you nervous about visiting for the first time? We get it. That’s why we take care of all the planning so you can just enjoy.

Our Promise: Tailor-Made Travel That Gets You

We know that not all “LGBT+ friendly” hotels are actually friendly. That’s why we only work with partners who prove themselves. When you book with Wide Awake Holidays, you’re not just another guest. You’re part of a community that deserves better.

We take care of everything:

  • Flights, transfers, and accommodation
  • Tailored itineraries
  • Personal support from a gay-owned UK travel company

And if you want something special – an engagement weekend, birthday blowout, or just a break that helps you breathe – we’re here to make it happen.

Ready for Your New York Moment?

There’s never been a better time to explore one of the world’s most iconic cities. Whether you want to dance on a rooftop, stroll through queer history, or simply check in to a hotel where you’re treated with respect, Wide Awake Holidays is here to help.

Your perfect escape starts with a conversation.

Call us on 01495 400947  to plan your tailor-made New York adventure. Or use our  holiday enquiry form  to get started online.


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