The Best LGBT Friendly Hotels in Thailand
LGBT+ Holidays to Thailand: Discover the Best LGBT+ Friendly Hotels
Thailand has long been one of the top destinations for LGBT+ holidays, thanks to its warm climate, vibrant cities, welcoming culture, and stunning coastlines. But when it comes to accommodation, not all places are created equal. Whether you're a seasoned queer traveller or booking your very first gay-friendly escape, choosing the right hotel can make all the difference.
From luxurious beachfront resorts to boutique city hideaways, this guide to the best LGBT+ friendly hotels in Thailand ensures you can relax, be yourself, and enjoy your holiday to the fullest. After all, at Wide Awake Holidays, we believe that sometimes gay friendly just isn’t friendly enough.
Why Thailand Is a Favourite for LGBT+ Holidays
Thailand offers a unique blend of ancient culture, modern comforts, and open-mindedness that appeals to LGBT+ travellers from all over the world. The country’s famous hospitality, diverse nightlife, and breathtaking natural beauty make it a natural choice for couples, solo adventurers, and groups alike.
It’s also one of the most LGBT+ friendly destinations in Asia. While legal recognition for same-sex couples is still evolving, Thailand is known for its tolerance and social acceptance. In cities like Bangkok and Chiang Mai, or coastal areas like Phuket and Koh Samui, you’ll find a thriving queer scene and a warm welcome wherever you go.
What Makes a Hotel Truly LGBT+ Friendly?
It’s easy for a hotel to slap on a rainbow sticker and say it’s LGBT+ welcoming. But true inclusivity runs deeper. A genuinely LGBT+ friendly hotel creates a space where all guests feel safe, respected, and celebrated—regardless of who they love or how they identify.
Here’s what to look for:
- Staff trained in diversity and inclusion
- Marketing that actively represents the LGBT+ community
- A non-discriminatory policy for all guests
- Support for local LGBT+ events or charities
- A visible and affirming environment (e.g., gender-neutral bathrooms, inclusive signage)
Many of the hotels in this list go beyond tolerance—they embrace and celebrate LGBT+ travellers.
Protections You Receive When Booking with Wide Awake Holidays
As a UK-based, gay-owned travel company, Wide Awake Holidays is proud to offer more than just inspiring journeys. We provide full financial and legal protections so that you can book with complete confidence. All tailor-made LGBT+ holidays to Thailand include:
- Full ATOL protection
- Protected Trust Services (PTS) membership, keeping your money safe in a client account
- Supplier Failure Insurance (SFI)
- Scheduled Airline Failure Insurance (SAFI)
We’re committed to giving every customer peace of mind, no matter where you’re travelling from. And yes—whether you’re based in the UK, the US, or beyond, we can tailor your Thailand escape with the same care and protection.

Jamie Says:
"There’s something magical about Thailand—it’s welcoming, colourful, and full of hidden gems. When our clients ask me where to go for their first LGBT+ holiday, Thailand is always high on my list. The hotels we work with don’t just accept our community—they actively celebrate it."
LGBT+ Holidays to Thailand: Top Hotels in Bangkok
Bangkok isn’t just Thailand’s capital—it’s the beating heart of queer culture in the region. Whether you want to stay close to the nightlife or enjoy a quieter riverside retreat, the city offers some of the best LGBT+ friendly hotels in Southeast Asia.
The Siam

Set along the Chao Phraya River, The Siam is one of Bangkok’s most stylish boutique hotels. With just 39 suites and villas, it offers a peaceful escape from the city's buzz. The design is ultra-luxurious, and the staff go above and beyond to create a welcoming environment for LGBT+ couples.
Ask us about our exclusive offers at The Siam and enjoy a tailor-made experience.
How Gay Friendly is Bangkok?
- Homosexuality has been legal in Thailand since 1956.
- Same-sex marriage is not yet legal, though recognition is expected soon.
- Discrimination based on sexual orientation is banned under the Gender Equality Act 2015.
- LGBT+ people have employment protections under general labour law.
- The age of consent is equal for all.
- Public opinion is generally positive, especially in urban areas like Bangkok.
For a broader look at LGBT+ rights in Thailand, you can explore this summary from an international human rights group.
SO/ Bangkok

This design-forward hotel combines high fashion with high service. Overlooking Lumpini Park, SO/ Bangkok is popular with LGBT+ travellers thanks to its stylish decor, inclusive vibe, and proximity to Silom’s gay nightlife district.
If you're looking for a package deal at SO/ Bangkok, we’ve got some fantastic offers just for you.
LGBT+ Holidays to Thailand: Top Hotels in Phuket
Phuket is a tropical paradise with white-sand beaches, lush rainforests, and a buzzing nightlife scene. It’s home to some of Thailand’s best luxury resorts and is a hot spot for LGBT+ travellers looking for a mix of adventure and indulgence.
Casa Del M Resort

Casa Del M is one of Phuket’s hidden treasures. While not exclusively gay, it’s incredibly popular with LGBT+ guests thanks to its friendly staff, stylish design, and great location near Patong’s vibrant nightlife. The hotel frequently partners with local Pride events and offers a truly inclusive experience.
Speak to us to check if there are current offers available at Casa Del M.
How Gay Friendly is Phuket?
Phuket follows the same national laws as the rest of Thailand. But socially, it’s one of the most LGBT+ welcoming regions:
- Legal since 1956
- Discrimination banned
- LGBT+ events are openly supported
- Popular with international gay travellers
- Strong queer nightlife scene
- High public acceptance, particularly in Patong
The Slate

A five-star resort that merges industrial chic with tropical flair, The Slate is perfect for travellers who want luxury without losing local character. It’s not a party hotel, but it welcomes LGBT+ couples and offers a relaxing space to unwind in style.
Let us know if you'd like a bespoke offer for The Slate.
LGBT+ Holidays to Thailand: Top Hotels in Chiang Mai
For those looking to explore Thailand’s spiritual side, Chiang Mai is a serene northern city steeped in culture and surrounded by mountains. It’s more relaxed than Bangkok or Phuket but offers a strong sense of community and several welcoming hotels.
137 Pillars House

A restored colonial-era mansion, 137 Pillars House blends luxury with history. The intimate atmosphere makes it ideal for LGBT+ couples seeking a romantic escape. The hotel staff are attentive and discreet, ensuring all guests feel welcome.
Speak to us about crafting a custom package at 137 Pillars House.
How Gay Friendly is Chiang Mai?

- Same legal protections as Bangkok and Phuket
- Large expat LGBT+ community
- Annual Chiang Mai Pride event
- Quiet but active gay nightlife scene
- Strong support from local businesses
- Cultural respect for gender diversity
LGBT+ Holidays to Thailand: Top Hotels in Koh Samui
Koh Samui is known for its palm-fringed beaches, lively markets, and calm waters. It’s a fantastic destination for couples wanting a peaceful yet luxurious beach holiday. The LGBT+ scene is smaller but still present.
The Library

With minimalist architecture and a blood-red swimming pool, The Library is one of Koh Samui’s most iconic properties. LGBT+ travellers love its artistic flair, quiet location, and attentive service.
Ask us about booking a luxury stay at The Library with exclusive perks.
How Gay Friendly is Koh Samui?

- National LGBT+ laws apply
- High tolerance among locals
- Small but welcoming LGBT+ nightlife
- Many inclusive businesses
- A peaceful and respectful environment
- Popular for LGBT+ honeymooners
What If It’s Your First LGBT+ Holiday?
If you’ve never booked a gay holiday before, Thailand is a brilliant place to start. The people are warm, the culture is welcoming, and the destinations are unforgettable. With Wide Awake Holidays, you’ll never have to second-guess whether a hotel is truly inclusive.
We take care of every detail—your flights, transfers, hotels, excursions, and more. You’ll have peace of mind, personal support, and a holiday experience that feels truly yours.
Not Sure If LGBT+ Holidays to Thailand Are Right for You?
If you've never taken an LGBT+ holiday before, you might be wondering what sets it apart. Is it really that different from any other holiday? The truth is—it can be.
LGBT+ travellers often think about safety, comfort, and inclusion in ways others don’t need to. Will the hotel staff be respectful? Can you be open as a couple? Will locals be accepting? When you book LGBT+ holidays to Thailand with Wide Awake Holidays, the answer to those questions is always yes.
You deserve a holiday where you don’t have to edit yourself. Thailand is one of the few places in the world where queer travellers can truly relax while also experiencing vibrant culture, stunning landscapes, and world-class hospitality.
And the best part? You don’t need to figure it all out on your own. We’re here to walk you through every step—from choosing the right resort to arranging airport transfers with friendly, LGBT+ inclusive drivers. Your first gay holiday shouldn’t feel like a risk. It should feel like the start of something unforgettable.
LGBT+ Travel Tips for Thailand: What You Need to Know Before You Go
Planning LGBT+ holidays to Thailand can be incredibly exciting, but it helps to know what to expect when you're there. While the country is welcoming, a little preparation goes a long way toward ensuring you feel safe, comfortable, and free to be yourself.
Here are some tips for making the most of your Thai adventure:
- Respect local customs. Thailand is laid-back, but temples and sacred sites require modest dress and quiet behaviour. Holding hands in public is fine in most places, but overt displays of affection may raise eyebrows in rural areas.
- Stay connected. Local SIM cards are cheap and easy to buy at the airport. Having internet access makes it easier to navigate, book taxis, and stay in touch with your travel consultant.
- Use LGBT+ friendly apps and resources. If you're travelling solo or looking to explore the nightlife, apps like Grindr, HER, or local LGBTQ+ Facebook groups can be great for tips and connections.
- Be cautious of scams. In popular tourist areas like Patong and Bangkok, overcharging is common. Always agree a taxi fare upfront if you're not using a ride-hailing app.
- Trust your instincts. Thailand is generally safe, but if something doesn’t feel right—whether it’s a bar, tour, or person—it’s okay to walk away.
The best advice? Let Wide Awake Holidays handle the details. We partner only with trusted suppliers and give you 24/7 support so you can focus on enjoying the trip.
What Makes Wide Awake Holidays Different?
There’s no shortage of companies offering LGBT+ holidays to Thailand—but few understand what true inclusivity looks like. At Wide Awake Holidays, our approach is rooted in lived experience. We don’t just market to the LGBT+ community—we’re part of it.
Here's why clients come back to us again and again:
- Personal service. We don’t do one-size-fits-all. Your trip is tailored to your budget, travel style, and interests, whether you’re after luxury, culture, or adventure.
- Travel with confidence. Every booking includes Supplier Failure Insurance and Scheduled Airline Failure Insurance as standard. And thanks to our PTS and ATOL protection, your money is always safe.
- Global support. Although we’re based in the UK, we work with clients around the world. Whether you’re in the US, Australia, Canada, or elsewhere—we’ll craft your holiday with the same care.
- No awkward conversations. You won’t have to explain why you need a king bed instead of two twins. We brief our hotel partners ahead of time and make sure your preferences are respected.
- Ethical travel choices. We aim to support LGBT+ owned and operated businesses wherever possible and are proud to recommend properties that give back to the local queer community.
Ultimately, our mission is simple: to ensure that everyone—regardless of sexuality or gender—feels seen, respected, and celebrated while travelling. And that’s something you won’t find in every brochure.
Why Book Your LGBT+ Holidays to Thailand with Wide Awake Holidays?
Because you deserve more than a rainbow sticker. You deserve a travel company that understands your needs, respects your identity, and champions your right to feel safe and celebrated—every step of the way.
With a team that’s part of the LGBT+ community, we know what matters most. Whether it’s sourcing truly inclusive hotels, arranging travel insurance, or making sure your honeymoon is unforgettable, we’re here for you.

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Frequently Asked Questions
Is Thailand safe for LGBT+ travellers?
Yes, Thailand is one of the safest countries in Asia for LGBT+ travellers. While same-sex marriage isn’t yet legal, public acceptance is high, especially in major destinations like Bangkok, Phuket, and Chiang Mai. You can travel openly and comfortably in most places.
Are LGBT+ holidays to Thailand suitable for first-time gay travellers?
Absolutely. Thailand is welcoming, easy to navigate, and offers a supportive environment for first-time LGBT+ travellers. At Wide Awake Holidays, we guide you every step of the way so your first gay holiday is smooth, fun, and stress-free.
What kind of LGBT+ friendly hotels can I expect in Thailand?
You’ll find everything from luxury resorts and boutique city hotels to beachside villas. The hotels we recommend go beyond being “gay friendly”—they actively welcome LGBT+ guests with inclusive service and respectful environments.
Do Thai hotels allow same-sex couples to share a room with a double bed?
Yes, in reputable and LGBT+ friendly hotels, this is never an issue. If you book through Wide Awake Holidays, we confirm these arrangements in advance to avoid any uncomfortable situations.
Can I book LGBT+ holidays to Thailand if I’m not based in the UK?
Yes! Although we’re a UK-based company, we can arrange LGBT+ holidays to Thailand for travellers from the US, Canada, Australia, and beyond. The same personal service and protections apply.
Are there any exclusively gay hotels in Thailand?
There are a few gay-exclusive properties, especially in areas like Bangkok and Pattaya. However, many of the best options are inclusive hotels that offer a luxury experience to all, including LGBT+ travellers.
Is it legal to be transgender in Thailand?
Yes, Thailand is widely recognised for its acceptance of transgender people, known locally as "kathoey." While legal gender recognition is limited, trans travellers are generally respected and safe when visiting Thailand.
What’s the best time of year for LGBT+ holidays to Thailand?
November to March is ideal, offering dry, sunny weather across most of the country. This is also when many Pride events and LGBT+ gatherings take place, especially in Bangkok and Chiang Mai.
Does Wide Awake Holidays offer protection for international bookings?
Yes. All bookings include Supplier Failure Insurance, Scheduled Airline Failure Insurance, and ATOL protection where applicable. Your money is kept secure through our membership with Protected Trust Services.
How can I find out about LGBT+ nightlife while I’m in Thailand?
We provide tailored travel packs with every booking, including recommendations for bars, clubs, and LGBT+ events near your hotel. You’ll always know where to go for a fun, safe night out.
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